What to do with Ashes

More and more of us find ourselves holding onto ashes at home, whether inherited, kept until the time feels right, or simply because we aren't sure what options exist. Deciding what to do next can feel overwhelming, but clear information can bring great reassurance.

What to do with Ashes? is a warm, practical, and open workshop designed to help you navigate all the possibilities. Together, we will guide you through the practicalities and legalities of scattering, explore the wide range of choices available today, and help you find meaningful rituals to say goodbye, so you can make informed decisions and create a plan on your own terms.

Know Your Options: Gain a clear understanding of legalities, locations, and methods for scattering, interment, or keepsake choices

Make a Plan: Leave with practical steps, cost awareness, and confidence to record your wishes or discuss them with loved ones

Refreshments provided.

Part 1: Practicalities & Legalities

Understanding Ashes & Urns: Volume, components, urns, biodegradable options, and keepsakes. Legalities & Locations: Permissions, legal rights, and options across gardens, private property, and public land.

Part 2: Logistics, Rituals & Costs

Practical guidance on scattering, interments, and waterway or sea options. Ceremonies & Planning: Creating personal rituals, understanding costs, and putting your wishes in writing.

Anne & Lucia, Humanist Celebrants

About Us…

‘Thinking about the future is never easy, but taking the time to prepare is one of the most loving gifts we can give to ourselves and those we care about. Run by Lucia and Anne, Humanist Celebrants with over 60 years of combined NHS experience in Mental Health and Hospice care, we have walked alongside many families through life’s major transitions. Over time, our focus has grown toward honouring the personal stories that bind us together—and the deep sense of comfort that thoughtful preparation brings’…

Anne & Lucia